{"id":1500,"date":"2022-10-30T09:29:12","date_gmt":"2022-10-30T09:29:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kazandiranmuzakere.wordpress.com\/?page_id=1500"},"modified":"2022-10-30T09:29:12","modified_gmt":"2022-10-30T09:29:12","slug":"bize-guvenin-sozlesmeye-yazmayalim","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/bize-guvenin-sozlesmeye-yazmayalim\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Bize g\u00fcvenin, s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye yazmayal\u0131m!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">M\u00fczakere s\u0131ras\u0131nda pasif-agresiflerin en sevdi\u011fi \u015fey; \u201cg\u00fcven\u201d meselesini masaya getirmek.<br>Neden s\u00f6zle\u015fme yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131\u2026<br>Neden s\u00f6zle\u015fmelerde her al\u0131nan karara ili\u015fkin maddeler oldu\u011funu\u2026<br>Neden s\u00f6zle\u015fmelerin son maddelerinde mahkemelerden s\u00f6z edildi\u011fini\u2026<br>Neden s\u00f6zle\u015fmelere imza sirk\u00fclerlerinin eklendi\u011fini\u2026<br>Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim.<br>T\u00fcm bunlar asl\u0131nda taraflar\u0131n &#8220;g\u00fcven&#8221; \u00fczerine ilerlemediklerinin birer g\u00f6stergesi de\u011fil mi?<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">\u00dczerinde konu\u015fulup karara var\u0131lan konular\u0131n yaz\u0131ya d\u00f6k\u00fclmesi i\u015f hayat\u0131nda genel kabul g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f normlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r. Yani normaldir. \u00d6yleyse, verilen s\u00f6zleri ciddiye al\u0131p yaz\u0131ya d\u00f6kerek garantilemek istedi\u011fimizde tepki verenler, al\u0131nganl\u0131k yapanlar bizi y\u00f6nlendirememeli.<br>\u201cYoksa siz bize g\u00fcvenmiyor musunuz?\u201d diyerek baz\u0131 konular\u0131n m\u00fczakere edilmesini ve karara ba\u011flanmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyenler ile nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilirsiniz?<br>Baz\u0131 \u015feyleri s\u00f6zl\u00fc anla\u015fmaya b\u0131rakmaya ba\u015flarsan\u0131z, bunun nereye varaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kestirmeniz m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir.\u00a0<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">Bu anlay\u0131\u015fa sahip olduktan sonra nezaketinizi korumak \u015fart\u0131yla ve uygun bir dil kullanarak \u015fu mesajlar\u0131 verebilirsiniz:<br>\u2022 M\u00fczakere masas\u0131na oturarak birbirimize yeterince \u201cg\u00fcven\u201d duydu\u011fumuzu zaten g\u00f6stermi\u015f olduk.<br>\u2022 \u015eimdi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ise \u00fczerinde anla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z noktalar\u0131 kesinle\u015ftirmek, yaz\u0131ya d\u00f6kmek, yapt\u0131r\u0131m \u015fartlar\u0131 eklemek, yani m\u00fczakerenin s\u00fcreci i\u00e7inde yer almas\u0131 normal ad\u0131mlar\u0131 atmak.<br>\u2022 Bu ad\u0131mlar ile \u201cg\u00fcven\u201d konusunun alakas\u0131 yok. Birbirimize g\u00fcvenmedi\u011fimiz noktalar \u00fczerinde de\u011fil, &#8220;konular\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fc&#8221; \u00fczerinde m\u00fczakere ediyoruz.<\/mark><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fczakere s\u0131ras\u0131nda pasif-agresiflerin en sevdi\u011fi \u015fey; \u201cg\u00fcven\u201d meselesini masaya getirmek.Neden s\u00f6zle\u015fme yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131\u2026Neden s\u00f6zle\u015fmelerde her al\u0131nan karara ili\u015fkin maddeler oldu\u011funu\u2026Neden s\u00f6zle\u015fmelerin son maddelerinde mahkemelerden s\u00f6z edildi\u011fini\u2026Neden s\u00f6zle\u015fmelere imza sirk\u00fclerlerinin eklendi\u011fini\u2026Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim.T\u00fcm bunlar asl\u0131nda&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1500"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1500"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1500\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1500"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}