{"id":1836,"date":"2024-01-01T17:17:03","date_gmt":"2024-01-01T17:17:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/?page_id=1836"},"modified":"2024-01-01T17:17:03","modified_gmt":"2024-01-01T17:17:03","slug":"muzakere-sirasindaki-saldirilar","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/muzakere-sirasindaki-saldirilar\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00fczakere s\u0131ras\u0131ndaki sald\u0131r\u0131lar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>M\u00fczakere s\u0131ras\u0131ndaki sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131 etkisiz hale getirebilir miyiz?<br>\u201cPasif-agresif\u201c davran\u0131\u015flar g\u00f6steren insanlar\u0131n durumlar\u0131 ve kurduklar\u0131 tuzaklardan biri olan \u201cyoksa siz bize g\u00fcvenmiyor musunuz?\u201d meselesi \u00fczerine daha \u00f6nce bir payla\u015f\u0131m yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<br><br>Bundan farkl\u0131 sald\u0131r\u0131larda bulunan ki\u015filiklerle m\u00fczakerelerde her an muhatap olmak durumunda kalabiliriz. E\u011fitimlerimde bu sald\u0131r\u0131lara kar\u015f\u0131 al\u0131nacak tedbirlerden ve g\u00f6sterilmesi gereken tepkilerden bahsedip \u00f6rnekler veriyorum.<br>Bunlardan biri \u201csavunmaya ge\u00e7memek\u201d.<br><br>A\u00e7\u0131klama yapmaya, sebepler s\u0131ralamaya, ama\u00e7lardan, s\u00fcre\u00e7ten bahsetmeye, i\u00e7inde \u201c\u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc\u201d olan c\u00fcmleler kurmaya ba\u015flad\u0131ysan\u0131z, sald\u0131r\u0131ya ge\u00e7en taraf\u0131n hedefledi\u011fi rol da\u011f\u0131l\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 kabullendiniz, yani savunmaya ge\u00e7tiniz demektir.<br><br>Bunun yerine bu tutum ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131nda yatan nedenleri anlamak i\u00e7in do\u011fru sorular\u0131 sormam\u0131z gerekiyor. Farkl\u0131 m\u00fczakereci tipleri ile empati kurmak i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 sorular sormak gerekiyor ku\u015fkusuz. \u00d6yleyse sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015f g\u00f6steren m\u00fczakerecimizin hangi ki\u015filik tipinde oldu\u011funu da \u00f6nceden tespit etmemizde fayda var.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fczakere s\u0131ras\u0131ndaki sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131 etkisiz hale getirebilir miyiz?\u201cPasif-agresif\u201c davran\u0131\u015flar g\u00f6steren insanlar\u0131n durumlar\u0131 ve kurduklar\u0131 tuzaklardan biri olan \u201cyoksa siz bize g\u00fcvenmiyor musunuz?\u201d meselesi \u00fczerine daha \u00f6nce bir payla\u015f\u0131m yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bundan farkl\u0131 sald\u0131r\u0131larda bulunan&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1836"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1836"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1836\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1837,"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1836\/revisions\/1837"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kazandiranmuzakere.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1836"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}